What separates the people who are winning from those who fail to achieve their goals? It has nothing to do with luck or fate. It is the resistance one holds to one’s goal. People are not aware of the resistance because it is hidden in the subconscious mind.
You can want something but also want the complete opposite. For instance, you may want to lose weight but you also want what food does in meeting more pressing wants in your life. Resistance is what is pulling you in the opposite direction from where you want to go.