Why we fail

What separates the  people who are winning from those who fail to achieve their goals? It has nothing to do with luck or fate. It is the resistance one holds to one’s goal. People are not aware of the resistance because it is hidden in the subconscious mind.

You can want something but also want the complete opposite. For instance, you may want to lose weight but you also want what food does in meeting more pressing wants in your life. Resistance is what is pulling you in the opposite direction from where you want to go.

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How to become a positive person

You can’t control the external world but you can control your inner world. What you create on the inside you accomplish on the outside. If you want your life you change, YOU must change. When you change your mindset your response to the external world changes and you get different results. When your thinking changes, your life changes. People who are positive and happy have certain habits that create their positive mindset.

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Perspective is everything

There is an objective reality and a subjective reality. The objective reality is what is actually happening in our lives, the subjective reality is the way we perceive that reality. In other words, the way we perceptually and emotionally respond to the circumstances of our lives.

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How to be effective


Be proactive.

Life happens, things go wrong, dreams gets shattered and we have to deal with the unexpected. Our response to such events can be either proactive or reactive. Being proactive means that we take responsibility for our lives. We realise that our actions make a difference regardless of the circumstances. We focus on what we can control rather than what we can’t control.

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DON’T ignore stress

There is an objective reality and a subjective reality. The objective reality is what is actually happening in our lives, the subjective reality is the way we perceive that reality. In other words, the way we perceptually and emotionally respond to the circumstances of our lives.

Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. Painful events are most likely to happen in life, our subjective response to the pain that causes suffering. When we don’t accept the pain, when we become angry, resentful and respond with similar emotions, we don’t allow the pain to run its course and we can get caught up in ongoing trauma. We can feel powerless to come to terms with setbacks and just throw in the towel, become hopeless and plunge into despair.

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Who are your friends?

“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with”. Jim Rohn. No matter what is your mindset, to begin with, you eventually become the sum of the 5 people you spend time with. You start to develop the same attitude to money, outlook on life, attitude to fidelity, start using the same language, start developing the same way of interacting with others, mind reading what others think, have a similar diet, etc.

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How words create your reality

The life you experience today is a manifestation of your words. Your life today is the reality you have created by the words you have expressed all your life as the truth about yourself. You are living the story in which you believe.

The things that you said or heard repeatedly got wired in you brain and they have become your reality. Science has now proven that your brain is constantly rewiring itself to create your reality. The wonderful thing about this fact is that you can choose what you think about, and what you tell yourself as being true about yourself and in doing so you can literally rewire your brain for success.

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